For trans women who haven’t or don’t intend to get bottom surgery: What is the line between a man who just happens to enjoy a good penis and likes yours, vs someone who is fetishizing it? I have never pursued a trans woman (to my knowledge), but as a dude who thinks some cocks are nice regardless of who they’re on, I always wondered how you approach that approvingly without seeming objectifying.

I haven’t played an actual tabletop game in years, but I’m enjoying my current BG3 character and wouldn’t mind translating her to an actual 5e game at some point.

Soliel, the Dancing Flame. She’s a gold dragon bloodline sorcerer/oath of ancients paladin. Zariel Tiefling for them bonus smites. Dex-based, scimitars and unarmored because of the dragon bloodline’s scales giving innate mage armor. Searing smites everywhere.

She’s pretty fun to play, and I imagine in a tabletop game there’d be a good bit of RP potential. I imagine her as being an orphan raised by a priest of Lathander, who ran way to join the circus in her teens, then later put those skills to use as a paladin in the adoptive parent’s memory.

I’ve never heard of this. But, when making the classic Brass Monkey you drink (or pour out for the homies) the Old E down to the top of the label, then refill with OJ. So maybe like a 1:5, 1:6 ratio, if that helps?

Somewhere in a book of sci fi and fantasy short stories for children, there’s a fourth or fifth grade retelling of Kafka’s “The Metamorphosis”, and it was fucking terrifying at that age.

Smh, we’re still doing toon erasure in 2025?