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I was about to say the same! lol

Too bad that’s your experience. Yes it is true that some comrades can get “intense” at times. I think that, more than the ideas, it is how to express them that is at fault by their part.

Lemmy.world is too left?. It always looked normal to me. Although, I do want the total annihilation of capitalism, so…

Normally big instances are the most generalistic and less “politically biased”, but sometimes a more small and focused instance could be better for the things you want.

It is difficult because many new users come from centralized experiences and for them it is more natural to simply enter the first instance they find, which will always be Mastodon.social. They may also think that being on smaller instances means less visibility (which I believe is not the case, although I am open to be corrected on this).

I think the ideal would be a kind of recommendation system based on tastes and interests. When you go to the Mastodon site to register, it asks you your main interests and based on those it recommends one or another instance.