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  • 🙄 first of all, I carry a very limited wallet with me most of the time, and I only have to carry a keychain when I’m in the US.

    I was replying to the dismissive person above asking what to do when he loses his phone. Which is absurd in itself.

    I will say that it is incredibly liberating to have my one device do almost everything else I care about, mapping, calendaring, communicating with people in meeting with, conducting my purchases, and providing podcasts or tunes all at the same time. I love that I have open source software for almost all of the functions, and well essentially all conglomerated businesses are evil, I trust Visa way more than I trust, say, Bitcoin, or BNPL vendors like Affirm, or Klarna.

    I’m not going to handle cash money if I don’t have to because exchange rates are terrible and take margins at EACH transaction, are bulky, are prone to loss and are dirty, while my CC/Debit cards offer zero forex fees.

    I value my privacy, and I make reasonable efforts to frustrate the algorithms’ models of me, but quit pretending we all have to be Mennonites, and purity testing your community …








  • Honest question - why not fork android which already has all of the infrastructure needed for things like 5G handling, power management, and a widely supported ecosystem of components and vendors?

    I would try a Linux phone, absolutely, but why not just Android instead?

    The issue is current and future vendors for current and future Android phones are largely tainted and lockstep with Google.

    But wouldn’t developing off yesteryear Android still be leap years ahead of just reinventing the wheel around Linux? I kinda thought Android was Linux for our devices.

    I’m mostly saying this just because I’m jealous to bring all of my APK’s with me into that future.

    I don’t want to give up my reddit app and my current trio of browsers.


  • I kind of feel like MS tried three distinct times, first with their WinMo products pre-Apple, then with their Nokia partnership, then finally with one last push through the mid-10’s before Intel finally made x86 on mobile an impossibility (nuking the Atom line, selling their 5G modem business to Apple, etc) and before there just weren’t any paths forward for MS.

    Amazon and FB having their own phone product lines felt like the weirdest me-too-also-ran Android reskins to extend their own walled gardens, but also felt like both threw in the towel after like 18 months?!?

    MS had to be a loser for more than a decade before they gave up. They were really great at being a big loser.

    It’s just … apparent that nobody is going to do this for the love of the game, and that they can only get minimum market presence by financing their way to launching yet another walled garden ecosystem. Which is exactly what we all want to avoid in this group.





  • How is this person forcing you? Are you an adult? So they provide the material benefits for your life, like good and shelter?

    If “yes” to being an adult, and then “no” to being a dependent or an employee, then this requires a lot more conversation.

    If you have an android phone, you can make use of FDroid and Islands/‘Insular’ (without root access) to have a separately secure side of your phone for apps and system settings.

    For example, I loaded all of my work apps in there and then set a VPN so that ALL OFF THEM were unable to connect to the Internet when the VPN was offline, so that the ip-location and the DNS didn’t tattle on my travels. My regular phone use was secured away to the point I couldn’t accidentally send photos from my regular photos app through my work email app, only the second copy that lived within that ‘secure folder’ style partition.

    Obviously your situation is harsher but at least you can mitigate a bit by being able to offline the app for considerable intervals, this way.

    Good luck. I hope that you share more of this story.

    Edit: I see you are stuck on iOS. I have zero suggestions for your specific situation besides “work on the relationship, and your always have the right to walk away from the business or the adult relationship if it’s untenable.”