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  • that’s absolutely not the case in places like the netherlands and the nordic countries, people dont really give a fuck cus everyone speaks english anyway (unfortunately)

    i think the dutch and the scandinavians have hit their head or something cus their languages are so easy to learn but in iceland and finland it’s possible to never get fluent even with a lot of effort, cus the languages are damn hard, so people are understandably more forgiving











  • your first point is a pretty good one, ill give this a deeper thought and see what conclusion i make on whether to keep using the word or not.

    the second point is not as great, i dont ever see a black person calling anyone the hard r. i feel like the “friendly” n word is a different word entirely, even if it has the same origin. but that doesnt matter, ill focus on ur first one and will think about it further


  • i dont think most people associate it with behaving like a woman, at least i dont ever use it like that

    if i hit my foot on something and say “you -idontwannagetbanned-!” theres no association with any womanlike behavior lol

    same with like an annoying boss fight in a video game, i might call it that, not thinking even for a nanosecond that the behaviour is in any way womanly

    i just use it as a more vulgar synonym for “annoying” really. i dont associate women with being annoying nor do i think that being annoying is a female trait. i would hope that most people think the same too but im ready to be proven wrong.

    i hear the word relatively often from women who do use it against women too so in my experience theres not much of a case for it being a slur if the hurt group uses it as often or more often than others