

That’s tough, and I hope you can manage it in such a way that it is not a huge detriment to the team. I hope you can also share this burden with your manager because that is a lot.
About the dating situation, I see a lot of downside (potential for messy drama, meltdown of an already vulnerable direct report, HR issues if things go wrong) and just a little upside. I’d keep it professional, and if you like her enough, I’d wait until one of you leaves for another job, and then get her number to keep in touch.




Nebula instead of Youtube ($36/year), Kagi instead of Google search ($10/month), Soundcloud instead of Spotify (12/month), Bear instead of Apple Notes (35/year if I remember correctly). And I’ll probably move my email over to Proton at some point and start paying for that.