As the title says, how often do you admit you’re wrong? Is it different when it’s a factual dispute versus something more subjective?
I make an effort to concede early if I’m in error. I think because my mother almost never admits fault. She’ll fall back to “that’s not what I meant” or similar deflections first, and that’s really annoying.
The last big factual error I made was about the distance of walking, and that’s where I learned about Taxicab Geometry ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taxicab_geometry ).
I think some people believe admitting fault is a sign of weakness, but I find it’s more of a power move. It takes strength to do it, and people can tell when you’re sweating and desperate. Usually it leads to resolving the conflict faster and cheaper, too.
(I expect some people will feel the urge to reply they’re never wrong. I’ll file that under never admits fault.)
All the time…
Being wrong is the pre-requiest to learning something.
If you live your whole life only running into shit you already know, what the fuck is the point?
What makes it confusing is someone that lived a life like that, is gonna accumulate a shit ton of random knowledge. To the point people think of them as a “know it all” when it’s just the normal result of an inquisitive life.
Basically, the people that can’t admit they’re wrong never learn anything except how to keep arguing longer than the person trying to help them. There’s people walking around everyday that think they understand things, because everyone who knows better also knows explaining ain’t worth the time.