Minor nit: you don’t need a Google account even with GPS. I have sandboxed GPS without an account and use aurora store for things I can’t get via obtanium/F-droid.

Self host or hosted? Self host: forgejo, soft-serve, gitea, bare repos on a server

Hosted: codeberg, gitlab

Thank you for everyone’s help and input. I have it working now, albeit not in the way I had hoped (not using docker containers for it) but it works. I followed https://thedevquill.substack.com/p/setting-up-a-tailscale-exit-node but instead of using the NordVPN image I used the plain Wireguard client image. In the wireguard compose I set network_mode: container:wireguard. Now when I connect tailscale over the exit node, traffic is going out over the wireguard IP

The issue is that the remote server (the one I want to use as the exit node) doesn’t have tailscale on it. Otherwise I’d be doing just that :D

Jellyfin, navidrone, paperless, freshrss, mealie, linkwarden, and immich. All on a debian as docker compose setups on a home server. I access things via tailscale and if I need it outside of that via cloudflare tunnels. Simple and easy.